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AIDS patients-Do we discriminate them?
Mayuri Majumdar , Kolkata: May 23 2008
Made Popular May 24 2008
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AIDS patients-Do we discriminate them?
We talk about HIV/AIDS so freely that it never occurs to us what we might do when we are with an AIDS patient. I am a social worker myself and work with small kids. Many of them are infected with this disease. All they have to say is ,”Didi hamse koi baat nahi karta”(Nobody talks to us). I feel bad but at the same time helpless. I read this story on net and am sharing the same with all of you here...

My first year in college! That’s were I met the person that would change my life! I’m 20 years old (not yet tested for HIV) Yet, I have had unprotected sex many times. My boyfriend is 22 and is HIV positive. He was introduced to the HIV virus through a blood transfusion at age 7. My boyfriend and I do not have sexual relationships at all. I was aware of his disease before we became boyfriend/girlfriend. You might ask yourself, “why has her life changed if she doesn’t even have HIV?” Well, he changed my life in a significant way. I’m not afraid of hugging him, kissing him, or even touching his blood when he has cut him self accidentally. I’m aware of HIV prevention. Yet, I can only tell you how much I look forward to being with him every single day. I always thank god for blessing me with such a great man. I run with a different crowed;I’m a Christian and soon plan to marry that same man I met in college. We both love each other;but, there’s always questions about future plans. I’m going to be honest, I’m afraid of carrying the HIV virus. I do understand I am too young to be getting married, but I’m not willing to miss the opportunity of being without him despite what the future holds for us.

I felt good after reading this story...Lets really hope that we do not act like a million others who discriminate AIDS patients..

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4 Stars
Love is blind, but marriage is eye-opener. Let’s not forget it.
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Mayuri Majumdar
Kolkata, India
That comment should have gone to some other article. I guess I discussed something else here!
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Aneez
Mumbai, India
Well, Mayuri, I do not find Dharmendra’s comment totally out of context, though it appears a bit out of focus.

As for the point raised in your article, its really sad to notice that on one side we talk about battling AIDS and on the other we witness so many incidences of discrimination against AIDS patients.

Ultimately, the truth is that ’playing safe’ is the attitude adopted by a majority.
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The first discrimination with the AIDS patient is they are socially catagorized, as is done with the children, when they say ”Didi hamse koi baat nahi karta”.

Now the question is why did they say so as u after catagorizing them put in a specific NGO, and started raising the flag of AIDS with their faces on that, and ironically the lady is a social reformer who has catagorized them.

If u call person lame (Langda), he would think, something is lacking, and would feel unfortable among the two-legged people.
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Aneez
Mumbai, India
Now, here comes a well-focused comment from Dharmendra!

Indeed, its the nude truth, I hope Mayuri continues with the discussion.
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Mayuri Majumdar
Kolkata, India
Ok, I should have been more clear. My mistake. I am working with CRY and there are these field visits which we go to. And, we do not put children suffering from AIDS into specific schools. That is discrimination. And since they go to normal schools, they have this complaint.I guess now you can know that the situation is not so ”ironical”.
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Vinit
Mangalore, India
AIDA is incurable. Use knowledge as a weapon and there is nothing else that can protect you. story is too touching Mayuri. I wish everyone can understand that and have the guts to come out boldly on the issue. there is a firm need spread awareness against the diabolic disease and to treat infected equally.
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Mayuri Majumdar
Kolkata, India
Thank you Vinit. I guess you understood what I wanted to convey through the story of the girl. I mean I am not conveying to marry someone and do charity-its like if we start accepting that AIDS cannot be spread through touch, air, and the likes, it would make the lives of such patients much bearable. I guess this discrimination makes them all the more depressed and sad.
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Sure it’s sad and it is true that HIV patients are stigmatized, even knowledge contrary to their belief that this disease is communicable doesn’t seem to help. One can take steps towards making things better but the fact that such diseases are incurable and have underlying ”unprotected sex” casual factor makes people fear not only for their lives but also their social image. Such fears drown out the possibilites of lowering discrimination which I agree is unfair, but at the same time hard to overcome.
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